As we come upon pride month, now is as good a time as any to remind everyone that same-sex couples are entitled to the same fun, loving ceremony that any other couple is. Same-sex couples should never have to settle on their special day. Keep reading to learn the “do’s” and “don’ts” of planning your same-sex wedding.
Don’t think you have to ignore your religion/culture
If your religion is important to you or your partner, you don’t have to lose that aspect on your wedding day. There are a number of progressive wedding officiants across religions who will gladly perform same-sex weddings. This will allow you to have the religious influence you want that makes everyone comfortable.
Don’t assume only one of you can wear an engagement ring
Many same-sex couples want their partner to share in the engagement ring tradition. Post-engagement, don’t be afraid to discuss this with your partner. Feel free to shop together, or to surprise your partner with a ring of their own. No matter what you decide, both of you should be able to enjoy the time being engaged.
Don’t think your party has to be divided by gender
Couples across the board are beginning to neglect the sentiment that wedding parties must be divided by gender. Think about the people who have supported you the most throughout your relationship and life, no matter their gender. These are the people you want by your side.
Do whatever proposal is right for you
Don’t think one of you has to take the step to slip a ring around the other’s finger. If you want to make the move and propose to your partner in that traditional way, do it. On the flip side, if you would rather the two of you agree upon getting married instead of a traditional proposal, feel free.
Do confirm your venue is LGBTQ+-friendly
Now that same-sex marriages are more common, couples can get married just about any place they desire. This is a wonderful progression of events, but couples should still consider requesting more information on the venue before confirming it works for them.
Do mix and match what fits you best
At your wedding, you should feel free to be as unique or traditional as you see fit. Take some traditional aspects of marriage like walking down the aisle or certain décor options and put your own spin on it. This will not only make for a more memorable ceremony, but make you happier, as you have included what is most important to you.